Suddenly my mind come out with something :
When you have conflict with others, you should ask : What do you want?
Get the answer and solve the conflict.
When you have a problem with yourself, you should ask yourself : What do i want?
Get the answer and ask yourself again : What should i do for achieve my wants?
sometimes, all i need is someone to brighten my day with a bunch of flowers and hugs. its getting lonelier here .